Sunday, October 30, 2005

Oprah's take on men.

Taken from HERE.


Hear What Oprah had to say about Men



If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
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If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
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Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
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Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
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Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
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Slower is better.
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Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
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If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
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Don't settle.
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If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
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Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
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The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
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Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He
didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any
differently?
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Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
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Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
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If something bothers you, speak up.
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Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
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You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
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Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he
has more education or in a better job.
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Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
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Never let a man define who you are.
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Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on
you.
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A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
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All men are NOT dogs.
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You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is two way
street.
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You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about
baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship .
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You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not
supplementary.
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Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
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Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and
you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
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Never move into his mother's house.
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Never co-sign for a man.
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Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... You'll make someone
smile, another rethink her/his choices, and another woman prepare, and a man
aware.

Friday, October 28, 2005

see the new pussy/ my dog a porn star? =.=''

OMG,

the topics that spring up after I take a short hiatus from blog-hopping. =.=''''

See the new pussy and read the comment at the very end about my Candy being a porn star HERE.

Tsktsktsk.

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Have bought the boyfriend's present already, as I said before the risk of it being 'leaked' out to him before he even receives the present is EXTREMELY high if I write about it here, so sorri, no pictures then, unless you are close to me in real life, then you would already have known wayyyyy before.

Here's a clue - it cost me bleeding RM780. I reckon I've spent half that amount using his credit card, plus those holidays and fancy lunch/dinners.So....


Not much for some people I know, cos' RM 780 can't even get you a decent (original, cos I don't buy fakes) Coach handbag in Malaysia, let alone Louis Vuitton. Not that I even own anything from Coach..*nudge nudge wink wink HINT HINT*

He thinks I'm getting him a hedgehog. Well, yes, of course I am!(sortof anyway..^_^)


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Useful advice for the week - Smoking with your lecturer gets you information.


tatatata...

Thursday, October 20, 2005

more pictures!!

Somehow or other I happen to be in the mood for....(not for sex-lah! actually also can...heheh.) ..blogging-lar!
I'm supposed to be in class in a little while, but it's such a nice day to be home!! Also quite a few of my classmates are up in Genting.

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Pictures taken @ TGIF for the sole purpose of pissing Jamie off :

TGIF's fantabulous Mocha Mud Pie:



Guess who is eating the mud pie?


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I asked a few of my friends about how old they thought he looked.

Emral - 18
Peter - 18
Wei Ling - 13 or 14

And a few others whose guesses were around those figures.
And they say that he looks cute. =.='''''
Aih...


Look at the little boy again :


I have another 12 days or so to go get his 27th birthday pressie. I can see my money flying away already... *sniffles*


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Saw Eugene's 'Special Edition Marlboros'.

Nice packaging eh?






It opens SIDEWAYS, just like those zippo lighters.





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Suddenly am feeling sleepy. Time for my afternoon nap then..

Thinking of going clubbing?

I guess I'll have to think twice before going clubbing after reading THIS .

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Should be watching the Skeleton Key tonite, hopefully it's still being screened at TGV. I should utilize my 2 free movie tickets everyday till December. Meh.

Tuesday, October 18, 2005

a bit overdue.

No, not my period....Nyeh.


Pictures from my handphone gallery.

Dinner last week at Wong Kok in SS2..

See Jamie pose with my knife stuck in my leftover french toast.








That's it for now, there should have been more pictures but i seem to be having a problem uploading pictures off blogger. Pah.

Will be going swimming at 7 later. Time to get some shut-eye first.

Monday, October 17, 2005

so freakin tired.


Just got back from Genting a while ago. How come I've onli been away for a day but it seems like forever? So was bloghopping when i saw the picture below on a blog of which I am a closet-reader .




Damn funny okay! Check out their facial expressions!!


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Genting was SUPER COLD and even more misty! But it was fun-lar. Got to see the boyfriend's godson. The little fella is like a miniature version of his dad!
Since the small guy calls Mr W.K 'uncle', his dad got him to call me 'auntie'. Hahah!


Going to bathe now. Have a great week ahead!

Friday, October 14, 2005

yesterday...

I threw somebody's picture away.


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Today,

Dad replaced the computer in the family area AGAIN.


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Yesterday,

Some of my classmates asked me to go to Genting. Hmm...yam already going this Saturday-lah...(yay).


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Went shopping earlier on with Ah Karen. Am currently left with negative RM3 to spend for the rest of the week. Yes, NEGATIVE. Negative cos I owe Karen Rm3.


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Also currently in the process of finding a supplier sho can give me the best price for my ''toasters''. I have approximately another 18 days to do so. Pressure, pressure. *bites lip while giving the screen the squinty-eyed look*


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Did my homework for the retail subject today. Our homework for this week is to go shopping. So go shopping I did. ( Shopping trip courtesy of the boyfriend XD )

So along with the new jacket(to replace the one he bleached, heheh) and top from Drew ( thank you bro! *hugs*), I have another 3 new tops.

So you see, I do do my homework after all. *sticks out tongue at those who roll their eyes*

Monday, October 10, 2005

what the..

Sharon was my coursemate during the diploma course. Anyway i don't even have her on my friendster list and i see her testimonial to Drew in friendster!? like WHAT!?! hehehhe...


Yam damn tired. The next time you see a 1 or even 2 minute commercial on TV, please take into regard the amount of tinme and freakin effort it took to film that. Was at RUSH yesterday from 7am-6pm for the filming of Maxis' HOTLINK ad for the 'pek perayaan RM 10'. My feet are going to fall off anytime soon. Dunno if my mug will even be seen on TV? Just being an extra lar, but the food ( 3 meals!) was quite good.
Still, I managed to make it for Pei Yi's bday where i actually ate more than the boyfriend( and he can really put his food away). The expression on his face was priceless when i took a second helping. Hahah!

Thanks, Joyce, for the job 'lubang'. It was good to see you again too! *hugs*

Got a new pair of sweatpants and car wipers(isn't this a weird gift?!) from the bf.

College starts this week. Enjoy your holidays, MMU students. It will come to an end all too soon. *Evilevil laugh*





p.s : Going to Genting this coming weekend. Should be quite chilly there, just the way that penguin boyfriend of mine likes it.

Thursday, October 06, 2005

there were supposed to be pictures on this one.

I had actually removed my RS-MMC card, then i realized that the card reader has gone missing. So I pushed the card into the card-reader slot in my laptop, even though i know that i have to use the extender. Thank god for my tweezers ; managed to get the card out using that...phew.. So no pictures today lah...


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Malacca trip was great, just eating and going round the 2 major shopping malls there, and sleeping in his cold cold room, and trying to bond with the boyfriend's parents. Heh.Stayed there a day longer than expected, thanks to the doctor who gave the boyfriend an MC..

My mother reckons that I'm "under pressure" since he's an onli child. Hhmmm.......=.='''''''''''''''


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Figured out why the area around the base of my back was swollen. Excellent detective I am...

*My ass is hurting now.Boo.


p.s: *Or more accurately, my asshole is hurting.Nyeh.

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Happi Belated Birthday to Choon Lean. Dunno if she even reads this blog anymore? But congratulations to your 20 years of existence on this planet anyway!!


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I gave my Candy a blue stripe on her head!! Took her for a walk earlier on and crushed a blue flower ( the type where it is used to obtain the blue dye for kuih) and drew a blue stripe on her head!! It looks like warpaint lar!! ^_^

PPP Direct I adopted a cute lil' mouse fetus from Fetusmart! Hooray fetus!